Potty training regression when our little ones start preschool is a real thing and, trust me, you’re not the only one dealing with it.
First off, why does this happen? Well, starting preschool is a big change for kids. New place, new people, new routine – it’s a lot for them to take in. Sometimes, they just might find it hard to remember their potty training skills in the midst of all this newness. It’s like their little minds are so busy processing everything else that the bathroom thing takes a back seat.
So, what can you do about it? Here are some tips:
Keep Calm and Be Patient
Remember, it’s not a setback; it’s just a phase. Getting upset or stressed about it (as easy as that is to do) might make your child feel worse. They need to know it’s okay and that they’re not in trouble.
Stick to a Routine
Consistency is key. Try to keep mealtimes, bedtimes, and even potty times as regular as possible. This predictability can make them feel more secure and in control.
Talk It Out
Chat with your child about what’s happening at preschool. Are they nervous, excited, or maybe a bit overwhelmed? Sometimes, just talking about these feelings can help them deal with the change better.
Potty Breaks
Encourage regular potty breaks. Sometimes kids get so caught up in playing or learning that they forget to go. Gentle reminders can help.
Celebrate the Wins
When they do use the potty successfully, make a little fuss about it. A high-five, a happy dance, a sticker chart – whatever works to make them feel proud.
Dress for Success
Make it easy for them. Choose clothes that are simple to take off quickly, like pants with elastic waists. Avoid tricky buttons or snaps that can cause delays when they’re in a hurry to go.
Create a Potty-Friendly Environment at Home
Make the bathroom at home a place where they want to go. You can decorate it with their favorite characters or themes. If they have a favorite book or toy, let that be part of the bathroom routine.
Use Positive Language
Instead of saying things like “Don’t wet your pants,” try framing things positively. Say something like, “Let’s keep your pants dry today!” It’s a small shift, but positive language can make a big difference in how your child views potty training.
Be Understanding about Accidents
Accidents will happen, and that’s okay. When they do, it’s important not to make a big deal out of it. Just clean up, offer a change of clothes, and move on. Making them feel bad about it can add to their stress.
Share Stories
Sometimes, knowing that others have gone through the same thing can help. Share stories of other children (or even yourself!) who had to learn and sometimes relearn using the potty. It can be comforting to know they’re not alone in this.
Monitor Liquid Intake
Keep an eye on how much they’re drinking, especially before bedtime. Limiting liquids can sometimes help reduce accidents, especially at night.
Communicate with Teachers
Let the preschool staff know what’s going on. They’ve seen this before and can help maintain a potty routine at school too.
Encourage Independence
Part of preschool is about learning independence, and this can be applied to potty training too. Encourage your child to tell you or their teacher when they need to go. Simple things like teaching them how to pull down their pants and get on the toilet can boost their confidence.
Check for Other Issues
If the regression continues or there are other signs of distress, it might be worth chatting with your pediatrician just to rule out any medical issues or deeper anxieties.
Seek Support
Remember, it’s okay to ask for help. Whether it’s talking to other parents, joining a parenting group, or seeking advice from a child development specialist, getting support can make a big difference.
This phase won’t last forever. Soon enough, your little one will be back on track. In the meantime, know that you’re doing a great job, and this is just one of the many bumps in the road of parenting. We’ve all been there!
